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Azt tapasztalta, hogy nagyon sokat megtesz a csal\u00e1dj\u00e1\u00e9rt, m\u00e9g mag\u00e1ra sincs el\u00e9g ideje, \u00e9s m\u00e9gsem becs\u00fclik meg kell\u0151en otthon.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"text-align: center;\">Kati, mi volt, amit legink\u00e1bb ut\u00e1lt\u00e1l a sz\u00fcleid p\u00e1rkapcsolat\u00e1ban?<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: center;\">Anya \u00e1ldozat volt, Apa meg olyan, mint egy kisgyerek. Hisztis volt.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00c9s te melyiket v\u00e1lasztottad tudat alatt a mostani p\u00e1rkapcsolatodban?<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: center;\">\u2026 az \u00e1ldozati mint\u00e1t. T\u00e9nyleg sokszor \u00e9rezem magam \u00fagy. De most m\u00e1r j\u00f6v\u00f6k ki bel\u0151le!<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00c9rtem. Akkor mostan\u00e1ban ink\u00e1bb hisztis vagy?<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: center;\">Igen.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: center;\">Nos, akkor m\u00e9g nem kim\u00e9sz a mint\u00e1b\u00f3l, hanem az egyikb\u0151l m\u00e9sz \u00e1t a m\u00e1sikba. Ez nem lesz j\u00f3 megold\u00e1s. A f\u00e9rjed sem fogja b\u00edrni ezt a v\u00e1ltoz\u00e1st. \u0150 nem egy hisztis n\u0151t v\u00e1lasztott feles\u00e9g\u00e9nek, hanem egy szel\u00edd \u00e1ldozatot.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>A mint\u00e1kt\u00f3l, szerepekt\u0151l val\u00f3 megszabadul\u00e1s legjobb \u00fatja, ha a Szeretet Rendj\u00e9be l\u00e9p\u00fcnk. Ezzel nem kezd\u0151dik \u00fajabb j\u00e1tszma. <br \/>P\u00e1rkapcsolat ter\u00e9n Hellinger azt tan\u00edtotta a csal\u00e1d\u00e1ll\u00edt\u00e1sok sor\u00e1n, hogy a f\u00e9rfi-n\u0151i egy\u00fcttm\u0171k\u00f6d\u00e9sben a term\u00e9szetes rend az, amikor<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u201eA N\u0150 K\u00d6VETI A F\u00c9RFIT, A F\u00c9RFI SZOLG\u00c1LJA A N\u0150T.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Egy, m\u00e1r kialakult csal\u00e1dban ennek a helyre\u00e1ll\u00edt\u00e1sa nem egy egyszeri csal\u00e1d\u00e1ll\u00edt\u00e1s eredm\u00e9nye. A morfogenetikus mez\u0151ben energetikailag helyre tudjuk \u00e1ll\u00edtani a szeretetteljes m\u0171k\u00f6d\u00e9st, de emellett a h\u00e9tk\u00f6znapokban is tenni kell, hogy megv\u00e1ltozzon a dolgok menete.<\/p>\n<p>Egy\u00e9ni elbesz\u00e9lget\u00e9s ut\u00e1n szoktam a szakmai javaslataimat felv\u00e1zolni. Elmondom, hogy a probl\u00e9ma melyik r\u00e9sz\u00e9t aj\u00e1nlom csal\u00e1d\u00e1ll\u00edt\u00e1ssal rendezni, \u00e9s m\u00e9g miket tartok fontosnak megtanulni, elsaj\u00e1t\u00edtani stb.<\/p>\n<p>Aki m\u00e9g nem volt csal\u00e1d\u00e1ll\u00edt\u00e1son, annak egy helyzetfelt\u00e1r\u00f3 alkalommal megn\u00e9zz\u00fck, hogy milyen kibillen\u00e9sek vannak a csal\u00e1di energetikai rendszerben. Egy alkalommal mindig annyit korrig\u00e1lunk, amennyit a \u201emez\u0151 enged\u201d, vagyis amennyi m\u00e9g k\u00e9nyelmesen elfogadhat\u00f3 az \u00e1ll\u00edt\u00f3nak; amennyit a lelke k\u00f6nnyed\u00e9n el tud fogani. A lelki folyamatokat nem szabad t\u00faler\u0151ltetni, mert a l\u00e9lek \u00fagysem tudja k\u00f6vetni. Neki is van egy ritmusa a gy\u00f3gyul\u00e1shoz, a v\u00e1ltoz\u00e1shoz.<\/p>\n<p>Ezt a gy\u00f3gyul\u00f3, v\u00e1ltoz\u00f3 folyamatot tudatoss\u00e1ggal seg\u00edthetj\u00fck. Munk\u00e1m sor\u00e1n nagy hangs\u00falyt fektetek arra, hogy ne csak old\u00e1sokat csin\u00e1ljunk. B\u00e1r a tanok szerint ez beind\u00edtja az ember \u00f6ngy\u00f3gy\u00edt\u00f3 mechanizmusait, a gyakorlat sz\u00e1momra azt mutatja, hogy sokkal hat\u00e9konyabb az eredm\u00e9ny, ha tudatosan v\u00e9gigvessz\u00fck, hogy milyen v\u00e1ltoz\u00e1s v\u00e1rhat\u00f3, milyen \u00e9letmin\u0151s\u00e9get szeretn\u00e9nk, \u00e9s ez a gyakorlatban milyen v\u00e1ltoz\u00e1sokkal j\u00e1r.<\/p>\n<p>Ez igen egyszer\u0171 dolog egy k\u00edv\u00fcl\u00e1ll\u00f3nak, de amikor benne vagyunk a helyzetben, \u00e9s ahhoz kapcsol\u00f3d\u00f3 viselked\u00e9s- \u00e9s gondolatmint\u00e1ink vannak, akkor azokat nem biztos, hogy magunkt\u00f3l \u00e9szrevessz\u00fck.<\/p>\n<p>A L\u00e9lek- \u00e9s csal\u00e1d\u00e1ll\u00edt\u00e1ssal ezek a bels\u0151 mint\u00e1ink t\u00e1rulnak fel, amiket oldunk a m\u00f3dszer adta lehet\u0151s\u00e9gekkel, \u00e9s tudatos\u00edtunk, ami \u00e1ltal a h\u00e9tk\u00f6znapi zsigeri reakci\u00f3nkat is meg tudjuk v\u00e1ltoztatni. \u00cdgy tudjuk val\u00f3ban, min\u0151s\u00e9gileg is megv\u00e1ltoztatni az \u00e9let\u00fcnket.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; 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